tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24178632520691166182024-03-05T12:02:54.893-08:00One Mom's MusingsAftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.comBlogger848125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-69142503819682480652017-03-27T10:21:00.004-07:002017-03-27T10:21:46.917-07:00Our Trip to Scotland: The Last DayIt's 4am at the Days Inn on El Camino Real just a few miles from the San Francisco airport. I'm sitting in the dark while Robert and Jonah still sleep. Isaac is trying to stay busy in the dark with a Harry Potter book on his tablet.<br />
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Today we will fly back to Portland. Home. It will be good to be home after traveling for so long. But I wanted to write about our last day and get my memories down before they are gone.<br />
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Robert had arranged to meet some friends he'd baptized on his mission. They live about an hour south of Edinburgh and were going to drive up and meet him. The boys and I were going to head over to the National Museum of Scotland, The Elephant House and Greyfriar's Bobby and then meet Robert around lunch time.<br />
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The museum didn't open until 10am, so we got a table at the Elephant House, the very cafe where JK Rowling wrote Harry Potter when she was just a single mum, living on benefits. We got hot chocolates and pastries and I tried to suck in the vibe. There were several people with laptops. I just whipped out a notebook and hand wrote until our food came. The bathrooms are covered in graffiti honoring Rowling and the books.<br />
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The museum was spectacular. There was an impressive room of taxidermied animals even more exciting than a zoo because they were all posed perfectly and we could get close up. Even the ceiling was covered with all kinds of fish, whales and even a hippo! We spent the most time in that room, just because Jonah and Isaac were so enthralled. I think I would have preferred more Scottish history rather than natural history, but I knew the boys didn't want to be dragged around to that stuff anymore.<br />
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When we switched to a different room, though, and I saw a fashion display right next to an interactive science display, I let them hang out in the science room (complete with dolly the first cloned sheep!) while I indulged in looking at fashion through the ages. There were crinolines and corsets and even modern things like shoes only Lady Gaga could wear.<br />
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At noon, we went out to the street to meet Robert. We really had no way of communicating because our phones were not able to text for some reason. We could email, but one of us had to have wifi which I had spottily inside different buildings . . . anyway, it was like 1995 all over again. </div>
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We met up with Robert just fine, but were sad to learn that his friends had not been able to make the drive. It had snowed that morning. In Edinburgh it didn't stick and was sunny by 9. But further south, the roads were covered and there was 6 to 12 inches. They said they got on the road but then just got stuck in traffic. So they never showed up. They sent a message which Robert got after an hour of waiting. </div>
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So, we tried to pick up the day and fit in as much as we could. Isaac navigated us to a parking spot and then on a walking path that took us through "closes" or narrow alleys between the ancient buildings back up to Warhammer. He did a great job because when we popped out on the Royal Mile, we were right next to Warhammer.</div>
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We purchased the starter kit for Warhammer and had it sent to our Oregon home, then went to lunch on Cockburn Street, which is the street where they are doing some Avenger's 3 filming. According to the gal at the restaurant we lunched at, none of the actors will actually be filming in Edinburgh. Just doubles. Sad.</div>
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Here's the boys in front of the kebab restaurant. I'd seen the kebab restaurant the day before when the boys were painting their Warhammer figures and just assumed they were up to speed on the fake restaurant (it is actually a tourist shop, but the producers needed a kebab shop RIGHT IN THAT SPOT so they bought off the owner for a month and completely changed it to a kebab shop and in a month they will change it back) but Jonah and Isaac didn't know about Avengers 3, so when I told them, they were more than happy to pose for pictures.</div>
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We went back to our amazing apartment and Robert called his friends while the boys and I rested. With just a few hours left we decided to walk Princes Street. Jonah only wanted one thing: A snow globe for his collection. But he did not want to walk and walk. He also didn't care about eating dinner. So after we walked to the souvenir shop and then got Jonah a sandwich from the Tesco, we gave him the keys to the apartment and let him walk back by himself. I was a tiny bit nervous, but it was rush hour and there were plenty of people on the street lining up for busses and it was still light.</div>
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Jonah left and walked maybe the half mile back to the apartment, then sent an email that he'd made it just fine. Whew! Also, how cool that my 14-year-old got to navigate the streets of Edinburgh by himself. </div>
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Isaac, Robert and I walked and walked and took pictures. It was cold. Isaac and I were getting tired and hungry. So we turned around and walked back towards the apartment, knowing there were a bunch of restaurants on Queensferry street. We ended up at Zizzi's Italian restaurant and had a delicious meal. </div>
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Wednesday morning was just packing up and getting ready to go. I was sad and happy to be returning home. If only there was a way for us to live there, Robert to work, the boys to go to school, and me to sight see and explore for months and months . . .</div>
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The flight back was uneventful and we didn't find out until we'd landed in San Francisco that there's been a terror attack in London near Parliament and four people had been killed. London is about an eight hour drive from Edinburgh, so proximity wise, it was very far away. But as a tourist who had been enjoying a "trip of a lifetime," my heart ached for the people who were injured and lost their lives just trying to do the same. </div>
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The last bit of our trip will be a flight into Portland later this morning. It will be good to be home. But I reserve the right to plan a pretend move to Scotland until I start to obsess about Ireland. </div>
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We also got a parking spot right outside our apartment on the street, which was good luck. We had a breakfast of food we'd picked up at the grocery store: cereal, pastries and some fruit.<br />
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We've also been able to do laundry here, and even though there isn't a dryer, it's been very helpful as we'd run out of clean clothes.<br />
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We headed out around 9:30 and drove to a parking garage a pretty good walk from our destination, Edinburgh Castle. It was sunny/rainy/freezing wind all day. And at one point I saw hail. The Castle was very impressive and we saw the "Honors of Scotland" which are the crown, scepter and sword that have been used in a bunch (or all?) of the Scottish-British coronations. Also the Stone of Destiny, which I was totally fascinated by.<br />
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Jonah and Isaac got tired of the castle after lunch, which was fine. We cued up our Rick Steves Royal Mile podcast and walked and listened to all the interesting facts about the mile between the castle and Holyrood Palace. We saw Deacon Brodie Pub (the real Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde), original high rise tenements like Gladstone's Land, the Writer's museum (closed), statue of David Hume, statue of Adam Smith, where the last hanging in Scotland was, St. Giles Cathedral, the grave of John Knox, Holyrood Palace (which we were too late to get in to) and the Parliament building (which we entered by the skin of our teeth before closing).<br />
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As you can imagine, the boys were worn out and not interested in all of the fun details that Robert and I loved. So when Robert saw a store called Warhammer with Hobbit-like displays in the front window, we decided to step in and let the boys look around. Ninety minutes later we were leaving. (This is part of the reason we missed entrance to Holyrood Palace.)<br />
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It turns out that Warhammer is a complex fantasy-sci fi game kind of like Dungeons and Dragons. There are models that you put together and paint and a game you can play. The store employees had figures for Jonah and Isaac to glue together and paint. The painting took a while and turned out looking way better than I thought would be possible. But the store employee spent time teaching them all the techniques. After the painting, he showed them out to play the game. Then, there was just a little bit of finishing up of their figures and wouldn't you know it . . . if we spent £100, they would ship home for free!<br />
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Well after they spent so much time with Jonah and Isaac, I felt kind of obligated to buy a the starter set. But Robert said we would think about it overnight and gauge the boys' interest and come back the next day. I think we will be back there tomorrow.<br />
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Stopping in was the right thing to do. The boys both said Warhammer was the highlight of their whole day. Yes, even better than seeing the ACTUAL crown, scepter and sword that has been used for hundreds of years, was lost for 111, then found by author Sir Walter Scott buried in a chest, and now on display. Plastic fantasy figure > The Honors of Scotland.<br />
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We stepped in to a pub called Tolbooth Tavern for dinner and I finally tried haggis. I got the Tolbooth Tower which was tatties, nips, and haggis in a big stacked column. I was very pleasantly surprised. The horror of haggis is highly overrated in my opinion. The dish was delicious and everyone tried some, although Jonah and Isaac just had one bite.<br />
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Now we are back home and are looking down the barrel of our last full day in Scotland. We leave early Wednesday morning, so whatever we do tomorrow will be it. Probably forever. On the to-do list is The Elephant House, The National Gallery, Greyfriars Bobby (which should take about 2 minutes. We already saw it today) and some souvenir shopping. Robert is going to visit with some people he baptized and hasn't seen for over 30 years and catch up with us later.<br />
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Oh! I almost forgot . . . Robert bought me a silver ring today (I forgot my wedding ring at home) that says "soul mate" in Galic. Or, as Isaac pointed out, we hope that's what it says. I thought it was somewhat unique. Silly, I know, seeing how we purchased it in a tourist shop. But later in the day, I saw lots of them in another place right next to all the Outlander inspired rings. Oh well. I love the ring and am glad, after nearly a week that we look married again. Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-51144896483828464802017-03-20T13:13:00.001-07:002017-03-20T23:03:57.308-07:00Our Trip to Scotland: Welcome Sabbath MorningWe woke up in our Stirling Holiday Inn Express, had a basic breakfast (no haggis offered, not that I would have tried the Holiday Inn Express haggis) and headed to Edinburgh for church just 45 minutes away. We had it easy<br />
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Robert's friend Paul Brewster, and his wife Linda, drove from Preston, England—a three hour drive—to meet us there for church. Robert and Paul were missionary companions a lot of years ago and had served together in Edinburgh.<br />
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The ward was more "international" that I'd expected. There were many "American" speakers as well as some people from China and South America. I didn't get everyone's country of origin, but I'm certain there were more countries/continents represented. The bishop was on his first week and said how much he'd enjoyed getting out to visit families in their home, but apologized if it took a while to get to everyone as there were 993 people in the ward. (There were probably 150 in attendance).<br />
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Jonah and Isaac attended Sunday School with all the youth, and then priesthood with all the Young Men. They doubled the Young Men class size.<br />
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Robert, Paul, Linda and I got to tour the mission home, right next door to the church building, during Sunday School hour and both Robert and Paul had great memories from their time at the mission home. President Donaldson was very kind.<br />
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We headed back to church and Robert talked with people in the hallway and eventually found the son of one of the people he'd baptized while on his mission. The mother had moved to a different city and Robert was able to get her contact information, as well has her parent's contact information.<br />
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After church we went with the Brewsters out to lunch. This was possibly the best part of the day because Linda drove their car and we followed. It was so nice not to have to think about where to drive, where to turn, what lane to be in, who was going to plow us down, what pedestrians we might hit, why cars were parked in our lane causing us to have to use the oncoming lane to maneuver around. Blood pressure level: Chill.<br />
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She even led us to our Airbnb apartment near Dean Village and I don't think it was a coincidence that we got a great parking spot very close on the street. The apartment was (and is) amazing. It was built in 1891 for the Scottish artist Charles Martin Hardie and has original wood floors and iron spiral staircase. There is a lovely picture window upstairs that looks out onto a gorgeous medieval church and a viaduct style bridge. Everything about this place is fantastic including the above neighbors who are the Edinburgh Society of Musicians. I'm listening to their music through the wall now.<br />
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Anyway, after gawking at the apartment for a while, we took a walk over to Dean Village, which was just as charming and beautiful as I had expected, and then Paul and Linda left to drive back to Preston.<br />
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Later we walked down to Princes Street to McDonalds for dinner and just came back to relax at the apartment. It was a great Sunday and I'm so happy to be in this apartment.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-19507542811535590542017-03-17T14:25:00.001-07:002017-03-17T14:25:15.583-07:00Our Trip to Scotland: Skye and RaasayAfter listening to rain pelt the roof all night at the Luib House, I woke with low expectations for our dream day on the Isle of Skye. Our goal: to drive the Trotternish Loop and see all the stunning natural wonders and have lunch at Skye Pie cafe.<br />
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We're from Oregon. We know how weather works. Yesterday we had some luck with lining up sun breaks with our getting out of the car. Just because it's raining at one moment doesn't mean it will rain all day. Right?<br />
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It rained all day. Sometimes it was raining hard, like when we hiked part way up to the Old Man of Storr. Other times it was barely misting, like when we climbed the fence to look around the ruins of the Duntulm Castle.<br />
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Jonah and Isaac sat in the car for almost everything today. Isaac read Harry Potter almost non stop and Jonah took a lot of naps.<br />
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We drove by Skye Pie Cafe too early. Rick Steves says they open at 11. Also, it's too early for lunch before 11 anyway, so we did a loop of the western most part of the Trotternish Loop, a part of the island with the utterly asinine invention: the one lane road.<br />
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Here's how it works. You drive as fast as you possibly can down this curvy, pot hole-ridden, bumpy road that fits only one car. Every so often there will be a turn out for you should you come upon a car approaching you from the other direction. The goal is to be close to one of these turnouts before getting plowed into.<br />
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Oh, and just for fun, we'll throw in random sheep in the road.<br />
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Let's just say my stress level from driving is back up to heart attack. But without the side of stroke. So that's something, I suppose.<br />
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Spoiler Alert: we didn't die on the one lane road, and the Skye Pie cafe was closed for the season. So we headed to Portree for lunch. It was fine.<br />
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After lunch we walked around Portree a very little bit. No one in my family cares to browse bookstores as much as I do. One of us likes to browse candy stores. Another could look at replica swords and knives all day and the other prefers looking at maps. So we were definitely out of sync when it comes to looking around. I wandered down to the harbor that is known for it's row of pastel houses to get a few pictures, but evidently I take too many pictures and I was fussed about it until we did what? What?? What did they want to do?<br />
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Go back and sit in the car.<br />
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We loaded up on shortbread and other treats from a bakery and drove to the ferry terminal to sail to Raasay. The journey was 20 minutes and our accommodations here are quite impressive. Odd, but impressive. I'm not sure what to make of this renovated old estate that started out as the estate of Clan Macleods after the original home was burned down after Culloden in 1746.<br />
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The best part of this place has to be the stately library with a wood burning stove, lots of leather chairs and couches, and a stunning view out to the water. I got to sit there for about 30 glorious seconds before someone came in and suggested we take the car out on one lane Scottish roads again.<br />
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<br />Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-75862260977344052412017-03-16T15:15:00.000-07:002017-03-17T14:26:20.417-07:00Our Trip to Scotland: All the WeatherI'm sitting in a Bed and Breakfast in Luib, on the Isle of Skye, while pea sized hail pelts the roof-line window in our upstairs bedroom as I compose this update.<br />
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Our hostess, Marilyn, says we have free wifi but only for email and information. No uploading or the rest of the guests' wifi will slow down. So I will write now and post pictures later.<br />
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We woke to bright sun and blue skies at Kingsmill Hotel in Inverness. The hotel was pretty nice and we all slept like logs. Especially those who were waiting for the bathroom to brush teeth, etc. They found they couldn't wait the 2 minutes and promptly fell asleep in their clothes and were nearly impossible to wake up.<br />
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We had a really lovely breakfast buffet and did NOT try the haggis. I will admit I chickened out. I would have tried a bite, but the pieces were huge (huge for haggis, which I suppose isn't that big, but still . . .) and no one else wanted to share a piece with me.<br />
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We headed over to Culloden Battlefield and by the time we got there, the weather was cold, windy and starting to rain. Most of the exhibit was inside and I was worried that Jonah and Isaac would be bored, until we found them at the feet of one of a costumed volunteer explaining every kind of weapon available to the British and Scottish in 1745. They were entranced, especially when he showed them how one could hold a leather covered targe and an dirk in one hand to handily disembowel a person.<br />
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We then headed out to the battlefield in the freezing wind and rain. It was miserable, and we didn't really get the full benefit of the audio tour because of frostbite potential. The whole time I kept thinking that the highland clans fought in this weather wearing SKIRTS!<br />
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We headed into downtown Inverness for some lunch and ended up at a mall. We tried to go somewhere else, but it was the only parking we could find. After lunch we walked around a bit. The skies were blue again and I snapped this picture of a lovely unicorn statue. (unicorn statue not pictured).<br />
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A few minutes later it was hailing.<br />
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Luckily, we were in our car and on the way to Loch Ness.<br />
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We pulled into the parking lot of the Loch Ness Centre and Exhibition, but because a) we didn't have a lot of time and b) the place looked a little bit groovy, we decided instead to give the gift shop a quick look around and head to Urquhart Castle.<br />
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Isaac got this darling hat for his birthday. Which was today.<br />
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Urquhart Castle was awesome and, pro tip, we got a 3-day pass for £48 which will allow us entrance into Sterling and Edinburgh Castles, too. Family entrance to just Urquhart would have been £27 for our family.<br />
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The castle was a hit with the boys, but at dinner tonight when I asked them the highlight of their day, it was that costumed guy at Culloden with the guns and dirks and swords.<br />
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We drove from Urquhart Castle as fast as we could to the Isle of Skye. Still, cars were passing us on the narrow, winding road. Also, it was snowing. Today's driving was less hair raising. I only had to shout, "Left side!" once in the morning and the rest of the day Robert was fantastic. Blood pressure level: rollercoaster. (Yesterday's was heart attack with a side of stroke).<br />
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We had planned to tour Eilean Donan castle on our way to Skye, but it was closed and we were in a hurry to get to our B&B before check in time expired at 7pm. Or as they say here in Scotland, 19:00. We had clearly planned too many activities for one day. Do you know how hard it is to pick things to do in Scotland for 7 days? It feels more like you are instead choosing all the things you CAN'T do. Still it was okay. We stopped to see Eilean Donan and Robert and Jonah ran up for a few pictures and ran back. I got this picture from the car. (Picture of Eilean Donan will be forthcoming).<br />
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We checked in to the Luib House and ran out for some dinner. Isaac got a baked Alaska for dessert and we quietly, and not annoyingly, sang Happy Birthday to him while he dug in.<br />
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Tomorrow: The Trotternish Loop for some beautiful hikes. Lunch at the Pie in the Skye (hopefully!) and then a ferry to some other island for our next night's accommodations.<br />
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Cheers!Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-77048187686847839292017-03-15T12:57:00.002-07:002017-03-16T01:26:48.699-07:00Our Trip to Scotland: The First 30 HoursWe started our trip to Scotland at 4:30 am Tuesday morning when we drove to the Portland Airport. We then boarded a flight to San Francisco, better described as a 90 minute fight for the armrest with turbulence.<br />
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It was about this point that Robert admitted my Rick Steves Scotland guidebook is better than the Scotland guidebook he carefully researched on Amazon before purchasing. Winning!<br />
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Other things learned in Iceland: Americans can be awful. No one needs to know that much detail about how you almost joined the mile high club, or what your feet looked like before your pedicure, or how you got that scratch on your leg. And why (for the love of all that is good and wholesome), did you SnapChat a picture of the scratch to all your friends?<br />
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Trip goals: discretion, grace, an not being annoying.</div>
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Did you know that when you board the airplane in Iceland to Edinburgh you have to go outside? They take you in a bus across the tarmac to a waiting plane. You get out of the bus and then you climb some stairs. You wait on the stairs in the blowing wind and 34 degree rain just before it starts freezing rain and snow while they load the plane. Jonah, pictured here in a short sleeve shirt, claimed he was not cold.<br />
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Folks, they gave us a car. With little more than a "don't forget to drive on the left side of the road," (and a bunch of signatures and up-sell tactics), they gave us the keys and set us off. It's possible it took multiple tries for us to get out of the airport complex. The Scots LOVE their round-abouts.<br />
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Dear Bloody Foot,<br />
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I'm so sorry you have been injured to the point that you now have blood coming out of you. Or maybe the blood has dried up and now it's just a scab. Or maybe it's a scab and a deformed ankle. Or bruising combined with elephantine swelling. Or, maybe you were horribly burned at a Tony Robbins leadership retreat featuring hot coals.*<br />
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I'm sorry. Whatever happened must have been horrible and traumatic. I cringe for you.<br />
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But please know, there is not one single scenario that should result in you posting a picture of yourself to social media. No, really. There isn't.<br />
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I know. You're thinking, <i>I am spectacularly bloody and the bruising is epic. No one has ever seen a foot this messed up before.</i><br />
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Just stop.<br />
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No one wants to see you, bloody foot. <br />
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I wasn't going to say anything. Up until now I simply "hid" the picture or "unfollowed" the rest of the person attached to you. Problem solved. But what should clearly have been a one off has turned into a disturbing trend that I struggle to understand.<br />
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Bloody foot, why do you think that you, in all your gore, would be of interest to anyone other than a podiatrist, or that person who designs Band Aids for weird-shaped body parts? This is really the biggest mystery, almost more disturbing than the photo itself. Almost.<br />
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My only guess is that there is some hormone, specific to foot injuries, released when you are injured, making you believe that everyone is dying for a close up. They're really, really not.<br />
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So, bloody foot, I beg you, wait until you've healed and then post pictures of your recently pedicured toes digging into a sandy beach. Snap and post shots of you decked out in your latest shoe purchase. An artsy black and white of your tootsies popping out from under the sheets next to a loved-one's tootsies? Great!<br />
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But if you're bloody? Keep it to yourself.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">*Updated 27 June 2016</span><br />
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For Brian's Back to the Future themed birthday dinner party, I decided that Jell-o needed a place at the table. But not molded Jell-o or cut and serve Jell-o. I wanted a Jell-o salad that you could scoop, and that would go well with pizza.<br />
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Whether or not it went well with pizza is still up for debate, but <a href="http://www.sixsistersstuff.com/2011/12/orange-fluff-jello-salad-recipe.html">Orange Fluff Jell-o Salad</a> was another, too-good-to-be-healthy "salad." And it probably isn't healthy, but I made it anyway.<br />
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The recipe made a LOT of orange fluff. I should have known this would be the case when I saw it called for a full pound of Cool Whip. That's a lot of Cool Whip. I brought the salad to the party and it didn't even disappear by half!<br />
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So I brought it home for the kids.<br />
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The feedback was typical.<br />
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Jonah grabbed a bowl and used it to scoop orange fluff, so that the side of the bowl was covered in fluff. It was a mess. "I didn't want to dirty a spoon," he said. I pointed out he could have used the spoon he was currently eating with. "Oh yeah," he said.<br />
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Jonah loved it.<br />
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Isaac was leery. There is fruit in it, after all. Not just fruit, but nasty black bananas that look lovely on the day you make it, and horribly unappetizing the next. I should have skipped the bananas. He had about two bites and said it tasted fine, but that was all he wanted.<br />
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Ethan? Who knows if he's had any. Probably not.<br />
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Robert? I don't think so.<br />
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I've had several servings and think it is great. Not something I'd want more than occasionally, but certainly not bad. I think calling it a fruit salad is a stretch. Vanilla pudding, orange Jell-0, 16 oz. of Cool Whip, marshmallows and then a little canned fruit.<br />
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It's totally dessert.<br />
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Which is why I don't know why more people don't eat it for dinner. If this passes as a salad, why would you not eat it.<br />
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"Yeah, I had a big salad for dinner tonight," sounds so much better than, "I had a big bowl of pudding and marshmallows for dinner tonight." If you can get away with that kind of subtle trickery, why wouldn't you?Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-35678594535938266922015-10-19T13:17:00.000-07:002015-10-19T13:18:55.054-07:00Lost Retainer: REWARD!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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<br />Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-74068564451098224142015-10-13T05:25:00.001-07:002015-10-13T05:51:45.399-07:004am on Shaw IslandI woke at 4am thinking of Shaw Island.<br />
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How wonderful it would be to sequester myself in a little home on this tiny island in the Washington State San Juans and just write, undisturbed, probably with a view of the sea. I would take walks every few hours to break up my writing day, but mostly I would write.<br />
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There would be no one to ask me to fix their watch. No one would say, "what are you having for lunch, and can you make me one." There would be no fights over the yellow highlighter to referee.<br />
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With only 240 year-round residents (many of which are nuns and monks) the chances of running into another person on this 7-square mile island would be rare. The general store even closes down for the season in October. Distractions would be virtually nonexistent.<br />
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I started to make plans in my head for getting to Shaw Island.<br />
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Then I realized that 4am in our home might as well be Shaw. Except for the water view, it is quiet and undisturbed. I should be able to write for several hours without so much as a "make me breakfast!" And once I'm in my head, it doesn't really matter where I'm sitting.<br />
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So why not get up now, and write on my imaginary Shaw Island?<br />
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I snuggled a little father down under the covers.<br />
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It's hard to get out of bed at 4am.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-90222707003783189712015-09-10T16:10:00.000-07:002015-09-10T16:24:13.962-07:00The Problem with Chocolate Covered BaconIt sits behind glass, next to the chocolate covered Twinkies and the chocolate covered Pringles, adjacent to the standing army of caramel and candy covered apples. Chocolate covered bacon was never something we'd considered buying when we stopped in the little candy store on our annual trip to the beach.<br />
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Not that the boys didn't make a case for it. A passionate, well-crafted case that consisted mostly of, "But, it's bacon. With chocolate on it!"<br />
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I would roll my eyes and say, "I don't think so," before turning my attention back to the classic, dependable, unmoved-by-fads-and-trends fudge and salt water taffy. We are not chocolate covered bacon people.<br />
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Until this summer.<br />
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"I think we should get the chocolate covered bacon," Robert said.<br />
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"What? We don't need that stuff. Fudge and taffy are good enough for us." I countered.<br />
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"I want to make memories," he said.<br />
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And there it was. <i>Memories.</i> I knew what that word meant, and I now knew what chocolate covered bacon meant too.<br />
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Four months earlier, after careful consideration, Robert decided it was time to look for a different job and took a buy-out package from Intel. It was essentially a four-month paid job search, if you wanted to look at it that way. Robert did look at it that way, and immediately started honing his resume and building a LinkedIn profile and looking for local companies in need of a process engineer. And while there have been interviews and connections and great contacts and positive feedback, what there hasn't been is a job offer.<br />
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So the search has expanded to places other than here.<br />
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I love here. The kids love here. And I'm pretty sure Robert loves here too. How can I ever say goodbye to the strawberries in June and the blueberries in July? The waterfalls in the gorge and the wildflowers in the mountains? How could I say goodbye to the rain that puts me to sleep at night and wakes me in the morning; that grows the trees tall and the grass green? How can I say goodbye to the friends, our neighbors, the playground steps from our back gate and the community that cares for and watches out for each other?<br />
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I don't want to leave. But I might have to.<br />
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So when Robert said he wanted to "make memories," I knew exactly what he was saying.<br />
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This could be the last time we wake up in the morning and say, "it's a good day for the beach! Let's go." It could be the last time we load up the car with shovels and skim boards, towels and sunscreen. It could be the last time we take that 90-minute drive past the farm stands and the old wooden train trestle bridge, the cool logging themed restaurant with the world's largest center beam log, and the former site of the world's largest Sitka spruce. It could be the last time we have the most delicious clam chowder at Doogers and feel extra special getting Tillamook ice cream at The Candyman.<br />
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We need to get the chocolate covered bacon now, because we might not be back here again.<br />
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We bought the chocolate covered bacon.<br />
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But I didn't eat any of it.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-11579582690029588772015-08-18T16:38:00.002-07:002015-08-24T09:04:17.200-07:00TransitioningI'm a writer whose former employer won't let her quit.<br />
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Why not? Because that former job just keeps dragging me back, demanding my time and energy. They refuse to find a replacement even though there are four qualified candidates just hanging around doing nothing. They only want me. They will not leave me alone.</div>
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I will soldier on despite the difficulties. Despite the fact that, if I'm being honest with myself, I haven't entirely left my former job. I never will. And truth be told, I never want to. It is my favorite job; one which—despite what some had warned—fullfills me in every way.</div>
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6:00 am - I wake. If I get out of bed now, I might get two uninterrupted hours of writing time. Think of what I could do in two hours!</div>
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6:45 am - I get out of bed and head downstairs in my bathrobe. I will reward myself with a shower when I've accomplished my work.</div>
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8:15 am - The office door opens. "We're out of milk. What am I supposed to eat for breakfast." I suggest toast. Apparently we are out of bread too.</div>
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8:17 am - I put on sweats (this still doesn't count as getting dressed and I am still bound to the "write first, shower later" deal) and head to the grocery store.</div>
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8:54 am - I return with the milk, bread, some donuts, deodorant (I remembered I've been down to the plastic for two days) and frozen corndogs so when there's nothing to eat for lunch, I'll be prepared. I get back to writing.</div>
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9:21 am - Child number three opens the door, walks in and plops himself down in a chair. "I'm bored. What can I do?" I tell him the dishwasher needs to be emptied and the playroom needs to be cleaned. He could do laundry. I have five more suggestions but child number three has slid out of the chair and is on the floor moaning and doesn't seem interested in what I have to say.</div>
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10:01 am - I'm back to writing after arranging a play date with child number three's friend and throwing a load of laundry in the washing machine. </div>
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10:45 am - Husband's friend shows up for their RC plane flying slash networking appointment. I'm still not showered. I shut the door to my office so he doesn't see me. I feel trapped. I consider writing a snarky piece on the fine line between unemployment and a very long vacation.</div>
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12:00 pm - Back to writing after hanging the wet laundry outside to dry and starting another load, vacuuming the boys bedroom and picking up the bathroom. If I work hard and finish, I can figure out what to make for dinner and go grocery shopping. And of course, shower!</div>
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12:30 pm - Yay shower!</div>
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12:38 pm - Husband comes home from RC plane flying with just enough time to shower and make it to his massage appointment. (Snark intended)</div>
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1:16 pm - Five boys set up World Pokemon Trading Negotiations 2015 out side of my office. They are excited. They are loud. They love Pokemon and they don't care who knows it.</div>
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1:20 pm - Child number three comes into the office. "I'm hungry," he says. What can I eat? I remind him about the frozen corn dogs. He already had one. What else is there, he wants to know. I suggest carrots or celery. I suggest grapes or a glass of water. I have more suggestions, but he's slid out of the chair and onto the floor in a weepy heap. </div>
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1:52 pm - The Pokemon delegation suggests that playing Super Smash Bros might be a good follow up activity to the card trading. I negotiate for a clean playroom and we have a deal.</div>
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1:54 pm - Child number three tattles that everyone is playing without cleaning. I respectfully decline to engage, beg child number three to just let me write and tell him to remind the delegation that we had a deal.</div>
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1:55 pm - Screaming, door slamming, thunderous upstairs stomping.</div>
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2:01 pm - Child number two comes into the office to complain. I give an ultimatum: clean the playroom or go somewhere else to play. Child number two refuses to take the deal. I suggest he go somewhere else with his friends. Child number two refuses to budge. I suggest he tell his friends they need to go home. Child number two holds firm on the disobedient stance.</div>
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2:04 pm - Child number two cries when I send his friends home. </div>
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2:35 pm - Child number two is still crying, refuses to leave my office. I get two more sentences typed</div>
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2:55 pm - I don hearing protection and text a picture of the crying child to grammy.</div>
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2:56 pm - "That's the meanest thing anyone has ever done to me," Child number two says. Or at least I think that's what he says. It's hard to hear with these ear muffs on.</div>
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3:02 pm - Child number three comes in to see what all the fuss is about. Two is kicked by three and now both of them are crying. I type four more words.</div>
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3:19 pm - Three blows his nose into the throw pillow I made from $20-a-yard, dry-clean-only fabric. It's my fault for thinking I could have nice things. I manage another sentence.</div>
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3:49 pm - The standoff comes to an end. I still can't hear because of the things on my ears, but Two and Three wander off to do something. (Maybe they're cleaning the playroom.)</div>
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4:15 pm - I pound out a good start to a blog post in which I use humor to hide my pain. </div>
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4:17 pm - Two and Three come in and argue with each other right in front of me. I ignore them. They leave after 2 minutes.</div>
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4:30 pm - The kids want to eat again. They say "Mom" a lot. I try not to make eye contact and type two more sentences. </div>
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4:45 pm - I realize I have no idea what is for dinner. I bring in a load of laundry, and reflect on another day I didn't get any part of my future bestseller written. Maybe I'll wake up earlier tomorrow.</div>
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Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-77031027712648313642015-07-27T15:18:00.001-07:002015-07-27T16:17:10.800-07:00The Miracle of the Reader's Digest Behind the Toilet<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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On the shelf behind my toilet sits the November 2013 issue of the Reader's Digest. It's magic.<br />
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I used to be a Reader's Digest subscriber. Every month the newest issue would arrive, spend a day or two downstairs, then go upstairs to the shelf behind the toilet. The Reader's Digest, with its one or two line "Quoteable Quotes," the mid-length quiz, "It Pays to Increase Your Word Power," and the longer "Drama In Real Life," makes the ideal bathroom reading material. There is just the right amount of content for every situation, if you know what I mean.<br />
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Back in 2013 I stopped my subscription to The Reader's Digest. While I enjoyed every part of it, I just didn't have time to consume it all before the next issue came. I found myself tossing them into recycling only partially read and feeling quite wasteful about it.<br />
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But we still needed bathroom reading material, so the November 2013 issue stayed put on the shelf behind the toilet. And it's a good thing I kept it, because as I've already mentioned, it's magic. After nearly two years, no matter what page I turn to in that 180 page magazine, I find something I've never seen before.<br />
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See? Magic!<br />
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"Did you read this article by Billy Crystal?" I ask Robert from my echo chamber one evening.<br />
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"There's an article by Billy Crystal in there?" He garbles over the hum of his Sonicare, mouth full of toothpaste. At least I think that's what he says.<br />
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"I know! How have I not seen it before now? It's hilarious." I glance at the cover again to make sure the Reader's Digest Fairy hasn't gifted us with a different issue. Nope, still November 2013.<br />
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A few days later, I find an interview with Malcolm Gladwell. <i>Of course!</i> I think to myself. T<i>his was when his last book came out.</i> I seem to remember reading it before and I scan the questions and answers. They are fresh and interesting, as if I'm seeing them for the first time. <i>Huh</i>, I think.<br />
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The next week I take the "It Pays to Enrich Your Word Power" quiz and score 13 out of 15. I wonder how many times I've taken the quiz and scored the same. Will I ever learn the definition of venal or bumptious? Is this something I should be concerned about?<br />
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<i>Concerned? </i>I think. <i>That I have a magic Reader's Digest filled with endless reading material? </i><br />
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I put the November 2013 Reader's Digest back on the shelf behind the toilet and try to recall that word I didn't know the definition for.<br />
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Until next time, magic Reader's Digest!<br />
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<br />Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-77936623932217823762015-05-24T21:25:00.001-07:002015-10-29T11:58:00.451-07:00Things You Should Never Say To a Person Who Is Trying to Be Nice (And Things You Should)When I was pregnant with my first child, I was diagnosed with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperemesis_gravidarum">hyperemisis gravidarum</a>. In other words, I threw up day and night for months, unable to keep anything down for more than a few seconds. Eventually I got a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peripherally_inserted_central_catheter">picc line</a> and was put on a 23 hour IV nutrition solution called <a href="http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/druginfo/meds/a601166.html">TPN</a>. Even though I wasn't eating, I still threw up around the clock.<br />
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Everything made me vomit but especially seeing food, the fridge being opened, the smell when something was being microwaved, and dreams about food.<br />
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During this time, many people tried to help. Some of them tried to help by suggesting anti-nausea remedies (<a href="http://www.sea-band.com/">Seabands</a>, ginger tea, smelling a lemon, hypnosis). Some suggested reasons HG may be happening to me (it was all in my head, it was Robert's fault, I'd let it get out of control, our new house had too much new carpet which was probably releasing chemicals into the air and making me sick). And one doctor subtly, but clearly suggested a solution (abortion).<br />
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Despite my explanations about food exacerbating the problem, people still brought me food. One person brought in houseplants so they could clean the air. Someone else kept me supplied with lemons to smell. And, when I was finally well enough to sit through church, one guy asked me, "Are you able to keep food down now?" every single week, even several months after my baby had been born.<br />
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It never would have occurred to me reprimand these people for making an effort to be kind. In fact, when I felt well enough, I wrote every single one a thank-you note. Did some of their attempts miss the mark? Sure. But it wasn't their failures I was paying attention to. That was secondary to their effort to <i>do something</i>. From my own experience, I know that <i>doing something</i> is not always easy.<br />
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So why do we have the myriad lists floating around the internet with titles like "stupidest things to say to someone with cancer," "things never to say to a person with anxiety," or "things you should never say to a pregnant woman," or a black coworker, or a daughter, or someone who hates her birthday, or a creative person or even (and I promise I'm not making this up) "things never to say to someone?"<br />
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Sure, these lists tell me what <i>not</i> to do if I want to be sensitive in a particular situation, but they also provide painful reminders of how many times I've said the wrong thing, even with my heart in the right place. Beyond that, they focus only on the negative behaviors and seem to mock the very people who are trying. They make me want to never say anything or get involved with a struggling friend again.<br />
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It takes so little effort to become offended. It's much more difficult to consistently see the good in others. More challenging still to do so when someone has said something unintentionally unkind.<br />
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How do you know if people are trying to be nice or are really trying to hurt you? Remember, people are usually dumb before they are malicious. Just assume that you are dealing with a good person who is temporarily afflicted with a little Dumb, and be kind. Instead of focusing on how they're offending you, why not give them the benefit of the doubt. Why not show a little grace.<br />
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Yes. Let's bring back grace.<br />
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Imagine a world where every time we said something dumb, or felt stupid, and wanted to hide under a rock and never come out, someone was there to recognize our good intentions? What if worked to build and love each other? What if we weren't mocked when our efforts to reach out to others fell short, but were lovingly cared for and enlightened?<br />
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If you find yourself struggling with what to say to someone who has just been insensitive towards you, but who is a little clueless, try some of these phrases:<br />
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1. Thank you.<br />
2. You are so nice to think of me.<br />
3. I appreciate you taking time for me.<br />
4. You are so thoughtful.<br />
5. Thanks for sticking by me.<br />
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No more silent seething and passive aggressive list-making when people aren't being nice to you. They <i>are</i> being nice . . . just not very well. Don't punish them for it.<br />
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<br />Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-23545416241425529582015-03-31T13:25:00.003-07:002015-03-31T13:25:40.187-07:00Why Writing Takes So LongI needed a name for a personal assistant to a company CFO. I thought, "Lois," or "Sue," but that sounded so typical.<br />
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<i>I should make him a guy</i>, I thought. <i>That's original. </i><br />
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I remembered that Jack Donaghy on 30 Rock had a male assistant. What was his name?<br />
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I Googled: Jonathan! But wait, when I started to Google "Who is Jack Donaghy . . . " before I typed that apostrophe s and finished the sentence with "assistant," I'd noticed that one of Google's guesses was, "Who is Jack Donaghy based on."<br />
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I had to know! So I went back and clicked on that. As it turns out, Jack Donaghy was based on a composite of several TV network CEO's but a big part of Jack's character is Lorne Michaels.<br />
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Huh. Who knew? (Okay, I know. Probably everyone except me.)<br />
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But there were several other articles covering the topic of Jack Donaghy and 30 Rock and one of them was an interview with Tina Fey!<br />
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Obviously I had to read that.<br />
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Tina Fey is delightful. And I've just wasted maybe fifteen minutes on a question I'd answered 14 minutes and 55 seconds ago.<br />
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So, what next?<br />
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I could tweet about how I just wasted so much time, but I don't think I could get this down into however many characters Twitter allows. I could Facebook status it, but I'm staying off of Facebook until I've got five more pages written, so I guess it has to be a blog post.<br />
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And that is why writing takes so long.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-82628663432677415122015-03-29T20:50:00.002-07:002015-03-30T08:58:40.730-07:00A Jarring Dinner PartyThere are consequences for going public with your opinions. Oh yes, there are.<br />
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Sometimes the consequence is acquiring a cortege of back-patting sycophants whose adoration you can never quite trust. Other times, its discovering a mob of vocal opposers happy to tell you where to go.<br />
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However, there is one consequence that falls in the sweet spot between love and hate: The Practical Joke.<br />
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I suppose I opened myself wide with my firm declaration that <a href="http://aftonsblog.blogspot.com/2015/01/every-time-you-make-salad-in-jar-kitten.html">canning jars are tragically inappropriate vessels for salad</a> (and hillbilly substitutes for all other eating and drinking purposes). Certain friends could understandably not resist the opportunity for a little ribbing.<br />
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The set-up was innocent enough: A pot-luck dinner party.<br />
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The covert legwork of the conspirators included a private Pinterest board full of food-in-jar recipes and nonchalantly pigeon-holing me into the one of two menu item assignments that could not be made in a jar.<br />
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I arrived on the pre-appointed evening with my piping hot rolls. The table had been set, but the food was not yet out. Mason jars with straws and lemon wedges stood watch over each empty plate.<br />
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<i>Okay. We're drinking out of Mason jars. It's cute. I can be a hillbilly for the evening. </i>At least straws had been provided. I said nothing.<br />
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And then the main dish came out of the oven: a tray full of chicken cordon bleu-filled half pints. Something was up.<br />
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Quickly, four quart jars of SALAD were removed from the fridge. What the . . . !<br />
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"Surprise! We're having dinner in jars!" my friends exclaimed with the unadulterated joy that comes from weeks of planning and a secret Pinterest board.<br />
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Dessert, too, was in a jar.<br />
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There was a brief moment of confusion. A, "wait, so <i>everyone</i> was in on this?" realization that I'd been pranked in the most delicious way.<br />
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Dinner was divine.<br />
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Eating the moist, delicious <a href="http://www.bigredkitchen.com/2011/11/mason-jar-chicken-cordon-bleu/">chicken cordon bleu</a> out of a jar was awkward, but doable. However, those who were not dab hands at using a knife and fork in tight spaces were happy to find the whole meaty-cheesy serving slid out of the jar and onto the plate in an upscale column that would have been right at home in a Michelin-starred establishment.<br />
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The sangria was delightfully refreshing and I started to wonder if the Hillbillies might be onto something. Drinking out of a jar has a way of making one feel decadently lazy.<br />
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The potatoes (not in a jar, but still important) were downright addictive. (Thank you Ranch Dressing Mix!)<br />
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The <a href="http://www.azestybite.com/oreo-mousse-jars/">"dirt" parfait</a> added a touch of chocolate whimsy to top off the meal. However my fingers did sustain slight collateral chocolating when my hand made contact with the rim of the regular-mouth jar while maneuvering the spoon to reach the last few bites. However the rare chance for grown-ups to eat gummy worms without our children hogging them all made up for any compulsory finger licking.<br />
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By the way, have I mentioned how overrated villas on Lake Como, Italy are? So. Overrated.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-68810995331862450192015-03-12T20:14:00.001-07:002015-03-12T20:33:46.402-07:00Hiking The Whole Wildwood in One DayMonday, after a <a href="http://aftonsblog.blogspot.com/2015/03/a-woman-trail-probable-knee-replacement.html">few months of conditioning</a> and prepping with my good friend and co-hiker, I-Shuan, we hiked the whole Wildwood Trail in one day. In retrospect, if I hadn't had I-Shuan there, I would have probably given up. It was pretty tough, and I have a feeling we both kept each other going.<br />
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7am - We arrive at the Vietnam Memorial in Washington Park, just past the zoo. Ethan drops us off, we pose for a photo in front of the "Start of the Wildwood Trail" sign, but it's too dark to get a good picture and we don't have time to fuss with the camera. We've got some serious miles to cover today. So after this grainy photo that won't convince anyone of our exact location (and that I decide to post to Facebook anyway), we set off.<br />
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7:30am - It becomes obvious that we have taken a wrong turn on the mess of trails in the Washington Park area, and while the magnolia trees were fragrant and spectacular on the Magnolia Trail, it appears we have looped around and are headed BACK to the Vietnam Memorial instead of away from it. At this moment I was ready to quit. The most we'd ever hiked was 20 miles and that was physcially a stretch. I knew 30.2—the entire length of the Wildwood Trail—was going to be our limit. Now, we had just unwittingly added one mile to that final number. It was almost more than I could take. I felt like Tonya Harding at the 1994 Lillehammer Olympics when, seconds into her free-skate routine, she discovered her shoelace was torn and asked to start over.<br />
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Like Tonya, I desperately wanted to start over. On another day. I could not hike 31.2 miles in one day. I couldn't! But we persisted, in large part because I'd already posted on Facebook that we were indeed doing this hike today. What could we do?<br />
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8:42am - Pittock Mansion and a comfortable looking picnic table come into view. I can't wait to sit down. Before we started, we had decided to rest every five miles during the hike as a way to pace ourselves. Pittock Mansion is actually four miles into the Wildwood Trail, but since we went a mile out of our way . . .<br />
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I snap a couple photos, update my Facebook page and get out my hiking poles to help with the steep down hill portion that is coming up. One of the things that I'd struggled with most while conditioning for this hike was pain in my knees. This time I had a knee brace and hiking poles to try and keep some of the discomfort at bay.<br />
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10:30am - We arrive at NW 53rd Drive and find a log to sit on while we fuel up on water, Cliff bars, and thanks to I-Shuan, Korean beef jerky and dark chocolate M&M's. I pull out my phone to pause my MapMyHike app and check Facebook. There are lots of encouraging messages from friends on the pictures I've posted. I read them aloud and I-Shuan and I are pumped. We are a third done with our hike. Next stop: the half way point for lunch.<br />
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12:30pm - Thank goodness one of us has to answer the call of nature, so we can stop for a few minutes right before a steepish climb. Before I started hiking on the Wildwood Trail, I would have told you that it was pretty flat. But now, about 14 miles in, I can tell you it is definitely not flat. I am becoming aware of every slight rise or fall in elevation. Painfully aware.<br />
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1:15pm - We finally cross Saltzman Road and reach the stone wall at mile 16 and break for lunch. I call Robert. He says he is proud of me and we estimate we should be done around 6pm. I have my peanut butter sandwich, three Advil for my knee, and am too tired to check Facebook. Also, my phone battery is waning, so I hook up my back up battery.<br />
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As we get started after lunch. I'm thrilled that my knee seems to hurt less than before. We power ahead.<br />
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I don't care what time it is anymore - We reach mile 20. I have come to rely on the blue diamonds painted onto trees every quarter mile as a way to maintain my sanity. We are making progress. Each blue diamond means I'm a quarter mile closer to the end. We sit on the ground and I suck down water from my camel pack. I brought two liters, so I should have plenty. It tastes so good. Too soon, however, it is time to get up and walk some more. The Advil is starting to wear off.<br />
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About mile 22 we pass some runners from the University of Portland. They are young, fit and all running in a neat, quick line, as if their knees aren't shooting spikes of pain into their leg with every step. It's so annoying. We move off the trail to let them pass and I-Shuan cheers them on and shouts something encouraging. I want someone to cheer for me. </div>
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4:30 pm - Finally, we reach Germantown Road. Mile 25. I make my way down the steep hill into the parking area. I'm taking the hill like a 99 year old grandma who has lost her walker and a young man with a spring in his step passes me going up the hill. "I've been doing this since 7 this morning," I told him. "I'm on mile 25. That's why I'm walking this way."<br />
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I just needed someone else to know.<br />
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He is either impressed or humoring me when he says, "Wow, that's great! I'm only doing two miles." It was enough to satisfy me.<br />
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We cross the street and sit on a log for our break. I-Shuan calls Ryan to give him our ETA while I suck down more of my delicious Portland water. To say it's refreshing is an understatement. Every gulp fills me with resolve. It is renewing and, if my knees didn't hurt, would be all I needed to spur me on to the finish line.<br />
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And then I run out of water.<br />
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How could this be? I'd had two liters. On all the hikes I'd ever been on, I'd never run out of water before. I-Shuan offers me salty pistachios but I just want delicious water. (I take a handful of pistachios anyway.)<br />
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My only consolation is that we are so close to our goal. And Ryan is coming to get us. Also helpful: I-Shuan gives me half a bottle of water. I decide to save it for when it is time to take more Advil.<br />
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Mile 25.5 - I question the accuracy of the blue diamond tree mileage markers. Surely they are lying. They taunt me.<br />
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Mile 25.75 - I-Shuan and I run out of things to talk about.<br />
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Mile 27.25 - I want my mommy.<br />
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Mile 27.5 - I wonder if I'm old enough for knee replacement surgery.<br />
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Mile 28 - Why didn't I take Advil back at mile 25?<br />
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Mile 28.25 - My phone battery dies and MapMyHike stops mapping my hike.<br />
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Mile 28.75 - We would be almost done now if we hadn't hiked that extra mile this morning.<br />
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Mile 29.25 - Ryan appears like a mirage in front of us. He's arrived to pick us up. As much as I'd like him to, he can't literally pick us up and carry us back to the car. We have to keep walking. Did I mention that we'd be done by now if we hadn't taken that wrong turn at 7am?<br />
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Mile 29.30 through 29.75 - "Isn't that the mile 30 tree right around the corner?" (No, it's not)<br />
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Mile 30 - It's as good as over. Just .2 miles to go. We've done it. Wait . . . I don't remember .2 miles being this long before.<br />
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6:45 - As we limp towards the van, Ryan has us stop in front of the trail sign for a picture. The smile is fake. The sign keeps me from falling over. Then, I get into the most beautiful minivan I've ever seen and immediately take two Advil.<br />
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At some point in the last year, I started thinking about hiking the whole Wildwood in a day. Had anyone done it before? Was it even possible?<br />
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A quick internet search revealed the answers to those questions as yes and yes.<br />
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I had hiked parts of the Wildwood Trail before. It was generally pretty level and I thought, "how hard can it be to walk for nine hours?"<br />
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My plan was to hike in the summer, when I could start around 6am and finish before dinnertime. But I never got around to it. Then, in January, my good friend and neighbor, I-Shuan, said she'd like to hike it with me, and why don't we just go for it, and, you know, hike 30 miles next week.<br />
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But her husband, an occasional marathoner and someone who likes to ride 60 miles on his bike just for fun, suggested we work up to it.<br />
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We started slow, with a Newberry to Germantown Road hike on January 26th that logged in at 6.4 miles and took us just under an hour and 40 minutes. It was a great hike that was just the tiniest bit challenging towards the end. It felt great. I could have gone farther, but was happy to stop.<br />
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The next week we upped the distance to 12.74 miles by hiking from Germantown to Saltzman Road. This took us just under three hours and resulted in a pain in my right hip and knee along my IT band. The end of the hike required a steep, one-mile trek up a fire lane to the Saltzman Road parking spot. It was most definitely not my favorite way to end a hike. I thought I was going to die.<br />
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The next week we planed for a 17-miler, but the weather was nasty and we decided to shorten. It was a good decision because this turned out to be the hardest hike yet. We started at Cornell Road, near the Audubon Society and hiked back towards Saltzman Road. I thought to suggest we start at Saltzman and walk DOWN that nasty fire lane instead of end with the the hike UP. Later, I regretted not saying anything. It rained the entire time and despite my wicking clothes and Columbia jacket, I was soaked by the end. The wind was blowing and at one point, we heard a loud CRACK and a large tree branch came down right behind us. The trail was muddy and the going was tough. The hike turned out to be 12.48 miles and it took us a thoroughly miserable 3 hours and 58 minutes to complete. There were blisters involved and a long, hot shower was required to stop shivering.<br />
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Next up was a short hike on President's Day. We started at the Veteran's Memorial and hiked just 5 short, but beautiful miles down to the Cornell Road trailhead near the Audubon Society. The weather could not have been better and the view from Pittock Mansion was gorgeous. After finishing that hike, I-Shuan and I had hiked—in sections—the whole Wildwood trail.<br />
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Now it was time to step up our mileage and work towards the elusive 30.2 miles. On February 20th, we started at the Saltzman trailhead and walked <i>down</i> hill (we're finally learning) to the Wildwood Trail and hiked 15 miles to Newberry. That took us a whopping 4 hours and 41 minutes. I got blisters in new places, became acutely aware of my knees and promised myself I would take some pre-emptive Advil before our next hike. </div>
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Unfortunately, by the next week, I'd forgotten all about the pre-emptive Advil. We started at 8am and hiked 20.58 miles in 6 hours, 37 minutes from the trailhead at 53rd all the way to Newberry. The last five miles were difficult. My knees protested with every step down even the slightest of inclines. My feet were burning with new blisters on top of old blisters. And my fingers had swelled up like little sausages making any attempt at manual dexterity laughable. At least I-Shuan and I still felt like laughing. The first thing I'd do when I got home, I told myself, was buy a knee brace.</div>
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Now, separated from that hike by a day, a long, hot shower and some Advil, I realize my desire to hike the whole Wildwood in a day was naive at best. Thirty point two miles feels ridiculous and possibly dangerous. But almost more than that, these hikes are knocking out almost a whole day. The question isn't "am I going to do the whole 30.2" but, "can I just get it over with next week?" </div>
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**Update, March 8, 2015**</div>
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At 6:30 am, which is still dark, I-Shuan and I will make our way to the Vietnam Memorial in Washington park and embark on our 30.2 mile journey along The Wildwood Trail to Newberry Road. </div>
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I've packed my bag with a peanut butter sandwich, two Cliff bars, six Advil, two hiking poles, two liters of water and one GoGirl. My phone and the back up charger are charging. My new knee brace is laid out and ready to go, along with my clothing. (I still haven't decided between the short or the long pants.)</div>
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This is the first Wildwood Trail hike since I started prepping that I am truly dreading. Do I need to hike the whole Wildwood in a day? How, exactly, did I come up with this idea in the first place? Would it be so bad to quit now, with a respectable 20 miles under my belt and call it good enough? Why am I doing this?</div>
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**Update, March 12, 2015**</div>
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If you'd like to read about the actual hike, <a href="http://aftonsblog.blogspot.com/2015/03/hiking-whole-wildwood-in-one-day.html">click here</a>.</div>
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I watched the water work it's way down, shearing the walls of the furrow as it went, pooling in places before breaking through obstacles and rushing onward. I watched, god-like, over this micro-erosion event and imagined the power this trickle of water and I wielded.<br />
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I wondered if this is what God felt like as the Grand Canyon was being created, as He watched the walls shape and form, and the canyon deepen. Did he marvel at the snaking course the water took through the path of least resistance? Did he get a thrill when the power of the water caused large boulders to break away, changing the face of the landscape in a moment? Did he ever feel the urge to reach down with his hoe and reshape things for the best possible outcome, or did he just let everything take its course?<br />
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Watching this process was a bit of a rush.<br />
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But instead of lasting millions of years, it only lasted a few minutes. Then, I planted the seeds, covered them with soil and went inside.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-26570363659727469872015-01-31T21:59:00.002-08:002015-02-02T08:21:33.950-08:00If Everying I Did Today Was a Click-bait Headline<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Even when I'm aware of the tricks marketers are using to get me to buy stuff, I sometimes fall for them anyway—willingly even. If a salesperson pretends she thinks I'm ten years younger than I really am, I will buy almost anything she's selling. I have at least a thousand of those little cookbooks they put next to the <i>People</i> and <i>US</i> magazines, that I've bought while waiting in the grocery check-out line. Once I even purchased six gallons of ice cream at one time because I saved a few cents—but only if I bought six.<br />
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The evil practice of clickbait, however, is one marketing scheme I will not fall for. Whenever I encounter a vague headline promising something unbelievable or intriguing, I refuse to so much as acknowledge its existence. Clickbait is the lowest form of marketing, designed only to garner clicks resulting in sub-par content which then translates into increased revenue for the website. I never click on clickbait.<br />
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Well . . . almost never.<br />
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Today, after clicking to find out the amazing thing one woman does with crayons that will change my life (she makes her own lipstick), I wondered how much more exciting my average day would sound if it was made up of clickbait-style headlines.<br />
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I Slept Until 8:13am and When You See What I Did Next, Oh My Gosh!</h3>
It's Saturday, so I slept in. I didn't have anything forcing me out of bed, so I checked Facebook. I even updated my status, all before getting out of bed. Can you believe it?<br />
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I Opened the Dryer and What I found? This Was Seriously Cool!</h3>
When I looked in the dryer, I found my clean workout clothes. I picked what I needed for my Pilates DVD, dressed and was ready in minutes. You know how cool it is that I remembered to put the wet clothes in the dryer before I went to bed so I wouldn't have to fish out stinky, sweaty clothes from the laundry basket to wear? That's right: Seriously Cool.<br />
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It Looks Like I'm Cooking Eggs and Turkey Bacon But What I'm Really Doing? Pure Genius!</h3>
I'm not always this efficient, but today while my bacon and eggs were cooking, I unloaded the dishwasher at the same time. By the time I was done making and eating my meal, I could put all my dirty dishes right into the empty dishwasher. They should give me a Nobel Prize.<br />
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You Won't Believe Why I'm Putting On Makeup This Morning. The Answer is Astounding!</h3>
I plan to head downtown to a trendy little boutique to buy some shoes, but I don't think the sales person will take me seriously if I don't look cute, so I'm accessorizing and wearing make-up. I can't believe I'm caving to societal norms like a sheep. Baa!<br />
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These Look Like Normal Jeans, but When You Find Out Where I Got Them, Unreal!</h3>
Part of my cute outfit requires me to wear my favorite jeans. But my favorite jeans are not folded up, neatly, in a drawer. They're at the bottom of my laundry basket. I take them out, sniff them, and put them on anyway. A huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders by admitting this.<br />
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When I Checked the Mail, I Never Expected to Find This. My Brain Hurts!</h3>
After I got home from buying shoes (suede booties, thank you very much), I checked the mail. There were quite a few things in the mailbox, including a package from China. But the piece of mail that really made my head hurt was the 1099 Tax Form for "miscellaneous income" or in other words, the trip to Hawaii I won back in March. Ouch.<br />
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I Looked in The Fridge to Find Something For Dinner. What I Saw Left Me Mortified!</h3>
I thought we'd have left over curried cauliflower soup for dinner tonight, but when I looked in the fridge, I saw there wasn't enough for everyone to have some. This means I have to figure out something else for dinner. Shoot me now.<br />
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When I Saw What Was On The Floor of the Kids' Bathroom, No Way!</h3>
The day is done. The kids are in bed and the doors are locked. Now it's just time to turn out the lights and hit the sack. But when I went to the boys' bathroom, I found the floor littered with dirty clothes and wet towels left there after showers. I can't even . . .<br />
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The take-away, you must agree, is that if you are ever discouraged by your normal life, try spicing things up by describing it with clickbait headlines. It will turn your day from average and boring, to soap opera-exciting. Language is a powerful thing.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-22389009228824059092015-01-13T19:52:00.001-08:002015-01-15T10:50:49.365-08:00Every Time You Make Salad in a Jar, a Kitten DiesUsing canning jars for things other than canning is a hot trend. With a little electrical wiring knowledge you can turn canning jars into pendant lights for your farmhouse-style kitchen. In the bathroom your jar can become a soap dispenser. You can paint them and put candles in them and bake little cakes in them and even drink out of them because looking like a Hillbilly is also a hot trend.<br />
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I'm a purist and think that canning jars should be used for their intended purpose: Canning. Every so often I will use one to hold some homemade salad dressing or spice mix, but for the most part, I use canning jars only for canning, the way the Good Lord intended.<br />
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I will not lie—these "cute" canning jar crafts get me a little riled, but there is one use of a canning jar that just puts me over the edge. It is the salad-in-a-jar.<br />
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Salad does not belong in a canning jar. Period.<br />
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Salad needs to be tossed and mixed and when you jam pack a jar right up to the top with salad ingredients, tossing and mixing become impossible. This is why for hundreds of years, people have eaten salads in <i>bowls</i>. We even have bowls just for eating salad. They're called Salad Bowls. You can buy them in sets or one at a time. You can get a big bowl for a big salad, or little bowls for small salads. The structure of the bowl allows for tossing and mixing so all the ingredients are evenly distributed.<br />
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Sometimes you might want to take a salad with you to work or a picnic. For these occasions, we have bowls with lids. It's a clever idea and very convenient for portable salad making.<br />
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My second, and probably most important salad-in-a-jar gripe, is the fork to jar ratio. I assume that if you go to the trouble of making a salad in a jar, and then follow that up with photographing your salad in a jar, you probably intend to EAT your salad in a jar. But standard sized fork will be just about as tall as your Ball quart. So while your first few bites of misguided jar salad could be easily attainable, your mid-level bites will become awkward and messy as fork holding area gets smaller and smaller.<br />
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By the time you are at the remaining bites of salad, which, by the looks of any salad-in-a-jar picture on the internet, will be the only ones with salad dressing, your fingers will only be able to grip the very tip of the fork handle as you try and fish out the chunks of cucumber, radish or chicken. Your hand can not fit in the jar, so there is no way you can dig deeper in that jar than the length of the fork will allow you to go.<br />
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I concede that some may use the salad-in-a-jar folly as a clever way to store individual salads and when eating time arrives, they get dumped in a bowl. Friends, this just creates extra dishes to wash. Grab yourself the bowl you plan to eat the salad out of, make your salad <i>in that bowl,</i> and cover it with a lid. I've just saved you one jar to wash.<br />
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You're welcome.<br />
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I realize it is fun to make our food look adorable, and putting salad in a jar is undeniably adorable. Google Images is filled with hundreds of thousands of pictures of everyone's attempt at making salad in a jar. But what you don't see on google images is anyone <i>eating</i> salad in a jar. Or at least not down to the bottom of the jar.<br />
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This leads me to believe that people who make and eat salad-in-a-jar are so embarrassed by their participation in this utterly inefficient hot trend, that they are not speaking out for fear of looking like a fool whose common sense is blinded by adorable hot trends.<br />
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People, please stop making salad in jars. Use a bowl and we will never mention this shameful period of hot trend history again.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-47217257677960929042014-11-01T21:57:00.002-07:002014-11-03T22:57:40.024-08:00Ten Things I Want My Teenage Son (and everyone on the internet) To KnowAs the mother of a teenage son, I'm experiencing things I'm pretty sure no one has ever experienced before. You know, stuff like slamming my foot on the invisible passenger side brake during driving lessons; giving constant reminders to pick dirty clothes off the floor . . . every day for the last thirteen years; figuring out how to get an apple or a glass of milk into the stomach of a kid who makes daily passes through the Taco Bell drive-through.<br />
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I'm basically a pioneer.<br />
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As a ground breaker, it's my responsibility to impart the wisdom that comes from being a parent for 16 year and 10 months, so when <i>you</i> reach these milestones, you will know what to expect and be prepared for the feelings and emotions that no one else has ever had before you.<br />
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These are the ten things I want my teenage son to know, and that I'm pretty sure you will want your teenage son to know too.<br />
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1. Never seek answers from a numbered list. Life is not that simple or succinct.<br />
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2. Beware of click bait that promises quick and easy reading. They're always selling something.<br />
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3. You are not the first person ever to feel the way you are feeling. About anything. Use that knowledge to be compassionate towards others.<br />
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4. When you are pretty sure you know everything, you definitely don't.<br />
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5. When you are pretty sure you know nothing, you probably know more than you're giving yourself credit for.<br />
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6. Sometimes, it's okay for lists to only have six items.<br />
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7. But if you need a seventh thing, use your imagination. I'm sure you can come up with something.<br />
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8. If you need to communicate important information to someone, writing it out and posting it on the world wide web is never preferable to, you know, just talking.<br />
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9. Always leave room for something completely frivolous.<br />
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10. No matter what you do in life, there will always be nasty trolls trying to tear you down with their comments. They are miserable people who deserve our pity.<br />
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There you have it! If your son knows these ten things, he's pretty much guaranteed to turn out to be a strong, confident young man. But not stronger or more confidant than your daughter. He will be exactly or slightly less strong and confident than your daughter. Because this world is only big enough for one gender to be strong and confident at a time.<br />
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That's how it works, right?Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-39007353146430834682014-08-13T21:22:00.001-07:002014-08-13T21:25:33.330-07:00CrankI have been in a cranky mood today. My plethora of peeves are like a series of little earthquakes releasing pressure along a California fault line to avoid "the big one." I've tried to spread my complaining around, so as not to overwhelm any one person, all along thinking, <i>if only I had a creative outlet to get this all out in one fell swoop</i>. And then I remembered my blog. Which is public, but no one reads blogs anymore, right?<br />
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So I'm sure that I will offend no one by offering the following things that I find tiresome and annoying.<br />
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1. Starting a sentence with "that awkward moment when . . . "<br />
2. Referring to ones female offspring as "girl child."<br />
3. People posting pictures of their feet on PDX's iconic ugly carpet on social media.<br />
4. Making the heart sign with your fingers, natch. (I thought this trend would have slipped into the nether by now.)<br />
5. Death knellers on Facebook who seem to love being the first to post celebrity death RIP's.<br />
6. My back hurts<br />
7. Waning laptop battery. (RIP laptop battery)<br />
8. The seemingly overnight increase of real estate in my belly area.<br />
9. Miscommunication.<br />
10. Me overreacting to miscommunication and making my boy child sad.<br />
11. People not calling my cell phone when there is a miscommunication.<br />
12. The Kardashians.<br />
13. Starting the Christmas countdown in August (or anytime before December 15th).<br />
14. Bitstrips<br />
15. Procrastination via means of blog post kvetch session.<br />
<br />Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-66274984003766226212014-02-23T14:09:00.003-08:002014-06-24T09:35:57.386-07:00The Hidden Message in "The Lego Movie" When I heard Fandango's Harry Medved, on the radio, say <i>The Lego Movie</i> was going into its third week as the number one movie, I knew it was because there was probably a secret agenda that was being promoted that everyone who loved the movie was just too confused to recognize. So I decided to see it for myself, uncover the secret agenda, and publicize it to the world. You're welcome.<br />
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I shamefully admit that I loved <i>The Lego Movie</i>. But right away, the secret agenda became as clear as Kragle oozing from its tube. <i>The Lego Movie</i> secret hidden agenda message promotes dangerous experimental animal hybridization. I believe they are doing this to normalize experimental animal hybrids and confuse the upcoming generation into thinking animal hybrids are acceptable.<br />
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In <i>The Lego Movie</i>, animal hybrid UniKitty is presented as an adorable, big-eyed cross between a unicorn and a kitty. UniKitty is fun and up for any adventure, but it quickly becomes obvious something is not right with UniKitty. Bubbling beneath UniKitty's sweet-as pie personality is dark violence, a trait that is neither present in the majestic unicorn or the independent, but clever kitty.<br />
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Taking things one step further, the movie portrays UniKitty's dark, Berserker-like violence in a positive, almost heroic light. If there is one thing kids do not need mainstreamed, it's the idea that going berserk is okay.<br />
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In real life, the kind of animal hybridization that created UniKitty would be considered abuse and never tolerated. There would be protests, sit-ins and PETA would throw blood on people! Yet small children, unable to understand the difference between fantasy and reality, will most likely attempt their own hybridization experiments. Before we know it, the world will be overrun with CatDogs, HamsterBunnies, and GeckoGoldfish. Admittedly, HamsterBunnies (patent pending) would be irresistible. But what evil leaning lies beneath the surface of the cuddly HamsterBunny?<br />
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I don't think the world is ready for the answer.<br />
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I also have issues with <i>The Lego Movie</i>'s hidden secret message that Batman is suitable boyfriend material, the promotion of the "old blind men with long beards are wise" stereotype, and the mainstreaming of cat memes. I will save those arguments for another time.Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2417863252069116618.post-84099456302038827772014-02-18T13:20:00.001-08:002014-02-18T13:27:02.018-08:00One Mom's Music ReviewI grew up in Northern California in a town called Castro Valley. This is the town that brought the world late Metallica bassist, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cliff_Burton">Cliff Burton</a> as well as MSNBC anchor <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rachel_Maddow">Rachel Maddow</a> and Pixar producer and Academy Award Nominated <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonas_Rivera">Jonas Rivera</a>.<br />
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Now, I think it's safe to say, we are nearly ready to add a few more names to that list of famous Castro Valley sons and daughters with the latest release of the Up and Down's album, "Hell of a Time." My friend and former Castro Valley High Class of 1987 classmate William Baptista (wikipedia page pending) plays drums for The Up and Down, and if you like bluegrass punk, the Dropkick Murphys, or any other tunes with a heel-kicking, pub-crawl-meets-hootenanny vibe, might I strongly suggest you check out this album.<br />
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If you're still not convinced, take a listen to this live performance of their title song <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgfdrV5jfpw">here</a>.<br />
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And if, after that, you are still not convinced of how thoroughly enjoyable this album is, take a listen to actual feed back from my teen and pre-teen children.<br />
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I played the CD (available <a href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/theupanddown">here</a>, or <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/hell-of-a-time/id815611094">here</a>) in the car while driving to church (seemed like a great time) and since the kids couldn't go anywhere for six to eight minutes, I had their undivided attention.<br />
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Me - So boys, what do you think of this music?<br />
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Jonah (11) - I like it fine. It sounds like stuff on the radio.<br />
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Isaac (10) - On a scale of 1 to 10, I'd say it's seven . . . ish. Or eight, probably nine.<br />
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Isaac - It sounds like Mexican music.<br />
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Jonah - It does not!<br />
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Isaac - Yes, it does.<br />
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Jonah - You don't even know what Mexican music sounds like.<br />
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Ethan (16) - It's fine. Hey you know what would be cool? A zip line from our house to Burger King.<br />
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So, there you have it. Irrefutable proof that The Up and Down are on the fast track being the go-to band for quinceaneras catered by Burger King. Jump on this band's wagon now and you can say you loved them before everyone else.<br />
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(Seriously, if you want to put yourself in an instantly good mood, check out The Up and Down's "Hell of a Time." Did I mention it's available <a href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/theupanddown">here</a> and <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/hell-of-a-time/id815611094">here</a>?)Aftonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01241351509996548332noreply@blogger.com2